Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Love Hurts


Love hurts. But to Alviss Kong, love kills.

(from C’est La Vie)

He broke up with his girl friend after 4 months of relationship. Depressed, he decided to end it by jumping from the 14th floor of his condo. He said good bye on his Facebook.

What I am trying to say, love is not only about ‘owning’ the person but to love unconditionally. For me, it was really a tragic. I pity all his loved ones. They must be very sad, especially his parents. What more, this people prefer to put their feeling on the social networking sites rather than talking to their parents. Do not attempt to copy what Alviss did. Nauzubillah. Semoga Allah memelihara kita semua. 

Talk to someone that we can trust. Maybe it will not resolve the problem, but at least it can ease the feeling.

As a good friend what we can do is to spare some time to be by those who you think is depressed, no matter how trivial the problem may be and never ever take lightly when someone says they want to end it all.

If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were - Khalil Gibran

Sunday, December 05, 2010


Something make me sad. Angry? No, just sad. Sometime, things that make you sad is better left unsaid. Hope next year will welcome us with more happiness, bless and health.